My Toughest Day Is Nothing By Comparison…
I think we all do it.
Sometimes, from where we stand, life seems to be sloping up hill. In all directions.
In the mist above our heads, we can see the ground continuing up, even as it disappears from sight.
And that is fine… I think we all know that without the depth of the valleys, the exultations at the peak, might not taste so sweet.
I, for one, would not like to live a life, reflected as a prairie landscape. Flat, and seemingly without end… feature… or relief.
I am a lucky man.
I have a wonderful wife… great family and friends… a beautiful home in a nice community.
Not a lot to complain about.
But…
I feel like I’ve been at the bottom of a valley, and have been looking for a way up, for a while now.
I’m getting frustrated at my lack of progress.
Not for lack of trying… but I just haven’t found the way, yet.
So, I found myself, sitting at my computer, catching up on a week’s worth of “I’ll get to that soon” correspondence.
And I came across this video.
www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=9xwCG0Ey2Mg
I’ve seen it before, and have heard a lot about the story.
It shook me out of my “poor me” doldrums… and gave me a fresh look at my surroundings.
As I look out the window, the tree above my new deck is about to burst into bloom. There is a beautiful bird, making a crazy loud chirping. I think possibly he’s goading one of my cats, who is probably sitting in another window. I am heading out shortly to meet some new friends for Tea.
The bottom of the valley has it’s own beauty, that I should take in and enjoy… while I am on my journey to the next peak.
Carlson Media – Video of #3TYVR
Justin Carlson of Carlson Media filmed the Third Tuesday Meetup of March 23rd.
(Yes, it was actually the fourth Tuesday… but whatever…)
Social Media and the Future of Citizen Journalism – (update: May 16, 2014 seems the video was taken down)
It is an 80 something minutes long film, and PROBABLY not good to load on your phone.
This is the discussion that caused the 3 am posting about the “J” word…
(…and for young children, the F and S word, are also accounted for, here.)
#3TYVR Meetup – Social Media & The 2010 Olympic Games… Unaccredited Bob’s Fear of the “J” Word…
I came home last night from the Vancouver Meetup of Third Tuesday.
The subject was Social Media and the 2010 Olympics: The Future of Citizen Journalism.
I had been to tweetups before, but never one from this group, or one as large… (150 people RSVP’d)
It was held at the Vancouver Pub Ceilis.
The questions posed, were ones that had not occurred to me… because I had not believed I was Media. I did not apply for credentials, because I felt my reporting held no weight, and that I had no journalistic background to fall back on. (I have to believe that just because my father worked for the BBC, CKWX and the CBC… I did not inherit a typewriter and fedora as a birth right.)
However, I DID report on events at, and surrounding the Games.
Some of my pieces had an Editorial Slant.
I do not get “paid” for any posts I have put on my Blog, and I do not receive, expect or accept any “freebies”, or “compensation”.
When I write a review of a Tea Shop, an Art Opening or a Restaurant… I pay for what I receive, and try to make notes and take pictures surreptitiously, so as not to draw attention to myself, or garner exceptional service.
Yes, I had an ad on my Blog, selling the “Beyond Blogging” book… but I bought the book myself, before I was offered the opportunity to sell it, as an affiliate.
My niece is enrolled in the Journalism Program at Kwantlen. I have a number of friends who are “accredited” media, and report on events, varying from the Provincial budget to missing children.
But I hadn’t EVER thought of myself, as Media.
I guess that I have to accept that, as we saw at the 2010 Games, Social Media IS having an effect on mainstream Media… and I am a very, VERY small part of that.
It was mentioned that CTV wasn’t going to broadcast the Paralympic Opening Ceremony on the night it happened… until Social Media caught wind, and applied pressure, and CTV changed their plans. (In BC, at least.)
I guess that is part of the larger question… but the rules are being made up, as we go along.
I know that when I write something, I take responsibility for it, and believe everything I write, to be factual, and correct. I stand behind what I say, and have taken “heat” for voicing my opinions on, amongst other things, Parliament being summarily prorogued.
The opinions on my Blog, are expressly my own, and although I don’t say that anywhere, I believe it is implied in the tagline: A brief and terrifying journey through the mind, music and musings of Bob Gray.
At Third Tuesday, we were invited to apply for accreditation to True North Media House, which, according to their website is:
A media collaboration campaign to encourage social coverage of major events, highlight emerging media and provide a venue for discussing the increasing use of social media in society, particularly at events of global importance like the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver Canada.
I believe that Media is changing. Social Media is causing Mainstream Media to adapt and evolve. The way that we receive our news, and the sources of that news, are changing. The face of Media itself, is evolving.
I embrace that change, and welcome the evolution towards a grass roots Media, from what seemed to be a few massive News conglomerates, with vested interests.
However, I don’t know that I am prepared to call myself a Citizen Journalist… even though, by participating in Social Media, we all are becoming that.
I guess I’ve got some evolving of my own to do !!!
National Politics, On A Global Stage… On My Blackberry…
In the past few days, we have seen a variety of events, playing out for our supposed enjoyment, or betterment.
The Paralympics wound to a close, and, as sad as we are to see the athletes go… all parties have to end, and so best it goes off when everyone is excited, energized and enthusiastic !
I was not able to attend any Paralympic Sporting Events, but through Twitter, I was apprised of successes and losses, and felt I was “part of the action.”
The Prime Minister of Canada, to much fanfare and hoo haw, made a big commotion about bringing his message to the people, and embracing social media… which proves that the wonks in the Conservative Party have NO idea how YouTube works. They laid out an “unscripted” 40 plus minute video. With NO regard to the average length or attention span of the public… they laid out a long… dragged out… bilingual snoozefest. It was, for all intents and purposes, a regular question and answer session, just released on Video… but waaaay too lengthy to go viral.
It was on YouTube, but QUITE difficult to find, by comparison to the Prime Minister’s foray into Pop Singer Territory, when he sang a Beatles song with YoYo Ma !
The American Government, amid much hue and cry, hand-wringing and name-calling, passed a Health Care Reform, which will (reportedly) extend Medical Coverage to help more people.
There were banners saying it was Communism… Socialism… Barbaric… Overbearing…
I find it ironic, that the country that leads the free world, fears putting into place a program that, at its root, tries to help people.
After the vote, President Obama spoke, and said, in part… “We did not fear our Future, we shaped it.”
Throughout the day, there was a discussion on Twitter, using the #HCR(Health Care Reform) hash tag. Some were for, some against… but using the power of Social Media, I was again able, amidst other chores, tasks and programs, to keep up with the debate, and had tears running down my face, when I read the Tweet heralding their success…
I have a few American friends. Some like this plan, and some fear it.
I believe time will show it to be a good thing… especially my friends who have serious debilitating diseases.
But if it isn’t ? I bet I’ll hear about it on Twitter, first !
Big Feast Bistro in Maple Ridge…
A few days ago, I was driving through Maple Ridge, and on the North-East corner of 227th & 119th, I saw Big Feast Bistro & Catering, which had tweeted about their Grand Opening a week or so earlier. As it was lunchtime, I felt compelled to go and do some “research” !!!
Located right on the corner, it has lots of windows, and a bright, airy venue inside. There are eight or nine tables of varying sizes inside, and a couple of bistro tables outside for nicer days. There was a generous amount of space between all the tables.
I walked to the front counter, and was greeted by the Chef, who happened to be passing by. As all the other Staff were busy with customers, he led me to a table, took me through the Big Feast menu, and said one of the Servers would be with me shortly. Prices for breakfast appeared to start at $6 and the lunch entrees seemed to start at $11.
Sure enough, a few minutes later, a young lady appeared, asking if I was ready to place my order? There were choices for Breakfast or Lunch, and, after some serious deliberating, I chose the “In House Pepper Crusted Roast Beef Panini with Blue Cheese Crème Fraiche, Carmelized Onions and Arugula” with a side of “Citrus Infused Fresh Fruit Salad.” For a drink, I decided to go with “English Breakfast Tea.” She left, and I took another look around my table. The Bistro was quite busy, with most of the tables being occupied. There were four Servers, plus the Chef, from what I could see, and they were all friendly, and, it seemed to me, the perfect balance between attentive and obtrusive. In one area, tucked in a corner was a small play area, to keep children occupied. There was bright music playing softly enough that it didn’t cause the murmur of customer conversation to raise itself in competition.
Before I had a chance to look any further, my Tea was back, and although I was by myself, it came in a large pot, which was delightful. I had barely finished putting the bag into my pot, and sugar in my cup, when my sandwich arrived.
First bite, and I was in Heaven. I cannot recall a time when I have SO enjoyed a sandwich, as much as I enjoyed that Panini.
I was raised to mind my manners, and when in restaurants, I TRY to behave better than I sometimes do when I am at home… but there was nothing for it… I took my finger, and licked every drop of the Blue Cheese Crème Fraiche off the plate! (And I raised my Fruit Salad cup in toast to Chef Mike.)
So, if you are out and about, in Maple Ridge…
No, strike that !!!
Make plans, to ensure that you ARE out and about in Maple Ridge, and drop by the Big Feast Bistro and Catering Company. They are located at 11920 227th Street in Maple Ridge. They are open every day of the week, from 8 am to 4 pm. According to their website, they also have classes available, in addition to the Bistro and Catering businesses.
Their tag line says “Feasts for the everyday”. Check it out, it will be well worth your while !!!
Wordless Wednesday, Featuring Chloe Woodin…
Three Chords and the Truth by Chloe Woodin
11 by Chloe Woodin
In order to make another attempt at a Wordless Wednesday Blog entry, I resorted to badgering Chloe Woodin to allow me to post her photos.
I had received a framed picture of a guitar, as a Christmas present from her, and it is displayed proudly in my BobSongs Studio.
I pestered her into creating a Flickr Account, and posting some of her photos there.
In addition to having (IMO) a stunning eye for composition, she is an amazing talent, as shown by one of the pairs of Chuck’s All Stars she’s designed… and the pencil drawing of the Flower. She also plays the piano amazingly well… despite the fact that she is not yet out of High School.

88 by Chloe Woodin
It will be interesting to see what the future holds, with so many avenues open…

Only 10 by Chloe Woodin


MWR-08 Shoes – Drawn on White Shoes by Chloe Woodin

Chloe’s Flower – Pencil Sketch

