Bean Around Books
Today was one of “those” days. Regardless of where I went, or what I did… The people immediately in front of me were beset by problems.
At the bank, there was a gent ahead of me, who was (apparently) transacting the whole year’s business for his medium-sized country.
At the pharmacy, the individual ahead of me needed some sort of celestial alignment to occur simultaneously with his purchase of a very convoluted, yet enormously precise selection of lottery tickets. Throw in a new cash register system, and you can see how I spent a fun hour in line.
A couple of other similar stops, with the same kind of “luck.” None of these events were, by themselves, remarkable. But after spending three hours, on what would (on a “regular” day) take 20 minutes, I felt I needed to stop the merry-go-round… And hit pause on the frantic for a few minutes.
As it happened, I was on Lougheed at 226th, right by a place I had been wanting to get to for a while, so I pulled in and took a breather.
Bean Around Books is located at 22626 Lougheed Highway in Maple Ridge.
They sell used books, coffee, and loose leaf tea.
They offer a nice seating area, free wifi, and it looks like they support local artists (from the art on the wall.)
Dan Ruimy, who runs the place, is very knowledgable about authors, and while I was lamenting the recent passing of Robert B. Parker, (one of my favourite authors,) he was able to suggest a couple of series of books for me to try.
Add a great selection of tea blends, and my day was quickly back on track.
Whether you are looking for a caffeine pick me up… or a book you can’t put down… Bean Around Books might be the best place for you !!!
You can find more info on their website at www.BeanAroundBooks.com
NOT Okay To Use The ‘R’ Word
I grew up in Vancouver watching the Variety Club Telethon, back in the days when it was live for 22 hours straight from the Queen Elizabeth Theatre.
As a natural extension of that, it made sense, when I was in my 20’s, to get involved with Variety Club… and for many years, I worked with a group of friends, who did everything from being clowns on the Telethon Morning segment, answering phones, being Ringo The Phone, running the Lobby Photo Booth, to running the Donation presentation area.
In between Telethons, we were busy most weekends, running or supporting events, and we worked and had fun with a lot of challenged and underprivileged kids and adults.
In more recent times, the Candidate I worked with in the last Federal election was mobility challenged.
Throughout my entire life, I have always hated the word RETARDED.
I don’t care if it is being applied to someone with an actual challenge, or someone referring to an awkward moment a buddy has. It doesn’t matter.
The reason this came up, as a Blog Post topic was due to George Stroumboulopoulos’ show on CBC.
The guest that Strombo had on, was Evan Sneider. An actor, who has Down syndrome… but that is a misnomer, because Evan is one of the most upbeat people I’ve seen in a long time.
I wish I could find something else on Evan, but I must borrow from Strombo’s website for Evan’s Bio:
EVAN SNEIDER
OCCUPATION
Actor
THE BIO
Every once in a while, an actor delivers a breakthrough performance that just blows you away. Jodie Foster did it in ‘Taxi Driver.’ Edward Norton did it in ‘Primal Fear.’ Here’s another name to add to the list. Evan Sneider. Only, Evan isn’t just breaking through – he’s breaking down barriers.
Evan is the first actor with Down syndrome, to play the lead in a feature film. The movie is called ‘Girlfriend’ and Evan’s performance has earned him rave reviews. In fact, during filming, he amazed the cast and crew with his ability to disappear into his character. And how’s this for praise ? His co-star Amanda Plummer – a world-class actor in her own right – calls him ‘one of the greatest actors’ she’s ever worked with.
And Evan has worked hard to get there. Born in Boston, he was determined to be an actor from an early age. In high school, he studied drama and creative writing and performed in dozens of community-theatre productions. Then in 2007, he appeared in a short film called ‘The Replacement Child’. Now, he brings all of his experiences to bear in ‘Girlfriend.’ Evan is the moral centre of the story, about a young man with Down syndrome who falls hard for a single mom.
During their interview, Evan and George got into a discussion of the ‘R’ Word… and how hurtful it is.
I couldn’t embed the video from the Strombo show, so here is the video from the R-Word website…
Please be advised, it contains some language that is strong, provocative and “Not Acceptable”
It isn’t okay to use this term…
It is derogatory, and insulting.
We’ve worked to eliminate a lot of words that are hurtful… I’m glad to see there is a campaign to help create awareness on this issue.
You can follow the R Word Campaign on Twitter, or get more information on the R Word website.
The only R Word I want to hear is on Pirate Day !!!
An Ugly Mob Is An Ugly Mob
In my last post, I mentioned that I felt I was only eligible for the job of street cleaner.
Sadly, in the wake of the Vancouver riot, it seems that a LOT of people have appointed themselves not only Judge, Jury… but potentially Executioner, as well.
For anyone who is unaware, Vancouver has enjoyed a spectacular few years, with the 2010 Winter Olympics, and the joyous crowds gathering together to celebrate the Canucks run to the Stanley Cup Finals.
Until Game 7.
There was a different vibe for Game 7, which was tangible from before the Game’s start… in social media… in conversations… people were uncertain that the atmosphere would be the same as it had been previously.
I do not have enough knowledge of circumstances and situations to start to cast shadows of blame on the Police Department. Certainly, the Police have my utmost respect, for doing the best they can. Whether the VPD planners should have been more prepared for a bad situation is open for debate, in my opinion… but by better, more informed people than myself, and I am not going to wade into a conversation, when I don’t know the facts. But the individual Vancouver Police Officers have, and will continue to have, my respect and support.
The ugliness started, and idiots, fueled by crowds of “citizen journalists” and an apparent lack of response from the authorities, strove to outdo one another with acts of bravado and vandalism. Damage a car? Sure. Roll the car over? Better. Set it on fire? Great. Pee on the burning car, or jump on it and have your picture taken? Awesome.
But there weren’t enough cars available to assuage the hunger of the crowd, so the mob, swept up in some frenzied quest for displays of their power, went to the shopping areas, where the large plate glass windows were tempting targets for their collective rage… the mannequins in the display windows suitably flammable… and the products behind the smashed glass too tempting to pass up.
The observers captured it all on the upheld cameras and cellphones.
A brave few tried to intervene, but their efforts went largely unheeded, by a crowd prepared to express and expose their power, regardless of the people watching and capturing it.
A few hours later, the cleanup began.
Both in a literal, and figurative sense.
People gathered together in physical groups that manifested themselves in the downtown area… sweeping, cleaning, scrubbing… trying to restore a sense of normalcy, and remove the scorch marks and “stains” that the city and its reputation had gained, overnight.
People also gathered together online, and began to share with the Police the photographic evidence of what they had seen.
And, as they posted the evidence online, they also began sharing it amongst themselves.
“Let’s identify this guy” “Somebody must know this girl”
Until many were (apparently) identified, and their names, cities and a short bio were being circulated.
And then it transferred beyond Social Media.
I got an e-mail from a person, who is not on Twitter or Facebook, showing three individuals, complete with photos… and their information.
Some members of the community were gathering together, and with the same frenzy, were lashing out against these vandals.
Except there was no due process.
No oversight.
No one in authority reviewing or weighing any evidence… looking at whether it might be someone who looks like them… whether they have an alibi…
None of that.
Just a “The system won’t punish them properly, so we’ll do it ourselves” vigilante-style frontier justice.
One of the people identified in the e-mail, lives a few kilometers from my house.
It was easy for me to look up, the information in the e-mail gave me the Father’s name.
EXCEPT THERE IS NO EVIDENCE OR CORROBORATION THAT IT IS HIM.
And even if there was… It ISN’T my job !!!
If I was that Dad, and I found out that my family had been identified publicly by what seemed EVERY BIT a lynch mob… I would have left my house, and taken my family away… fearful that some do-gooder is going to come by and do an equally rash act, to “even things up.”
If you have photos of vandals, send them to the Police.
The Police will sift through the evidence, and if there is enough proof, pass the case along to Crown Counsel, and it will proceed through the proper channels.
If you take the law into your own hands, in my opinion you are no better than the vandals.
You have been swept up by an angry mob, bent on causing damage… and not caring who gets hurt in the process.
I am a Social Media guy.
I love that within hours of the riot starting on Wednesday, there was a group forming online to try to help make things better.
We all saw the power of talking, and gathering together, in Egypt and Libya.
However, there is also a nastiness online, called cyber-bullying.
We must be vigilant that in our efforts to help out, we do not cause more harm.
An ugly mob is an ugly mob… whether on the side of “right” or “wrong”.
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Posted 5 hours later:
And apparently many of the identified vandals and their families have received threats.
A sad day indeed…
The rioters do not represent my City…
But the vigilantes don’t represent my Social Media, either.
This Is My City
There was a Hockey Game, and after the Hockey Game, as some of us feared, a few idiots found a way to make sure the spotlight shone on them… for all the wrong reasons.
I’m a Twitter Geek, and the first tweet that made me realize the seriousness of the situation was one from George Moen, who runs Blenz Coffee, who said that three of their locations had been trashed, and they were working to find out if their people were accounted for and unharmed.
I sent him a tweet, with my hopes that his people were okay, and asking if he needed a hand on Thursday or heard of anyone needing help, to please let the twitter community know.
Mere moments after that, it became aware to me that a LOT of people were going to need help… so I grabbed my shoulder bag, and started scouring the house looking for garbage bags, work gloves and other stuff I thought I might need.
By the time I got back to my computer, I heard that someone had started the twitter account @VancouverClean, and I was able to share this project, to try to raise awareness.
And countless others were doing the same.
At 1 am, I decided to call it a night. I had a fitful night… never sleeping for more than a few minutes at a time… sad at Vancouver apparently becoming a “thug” town.
The next morning I got up at 5:30, prepared to join my wife on her daily journey from Pitt Meadows into town, uncertain what I would encounter there.
People on the West Coast Express all looked at me, as I got on in my Canucks jersey… I think a few may have thought I was mistakenly going to the game on the wrong day… but nobody said anything… just gave me furtive, grimacing looks.
On the way in, I sent an e-mail to my mid-morning appointment, apologizing for cancelling, and explaining my reason.
When I got downtown, I looked at Twitter, and the Vancouver Police Department had given @VancouverClean the go ahead to help the City crews that had been working all night. (It was feared that there might be a delay, as much of the downtown core was a crime scene, but by 7:30, all investigation was complete.)
The morning started slowly.
I started at Howe and Dunsmuir, worked my way East to Seymour, and up Seymour to Georgia. There I met up with a few guys with brooms, and we traversed further along to Nelson, where they headed towards Cambie, and I continued towards Beach. It was just after 8 am, and the few pedestrians that were out were giving me looks, as if to say… “You got caught, and are doing community service already?” So I started engaging them in conversation, as they passed me… smiling and saying “Good morning!”
About an hour, and an industrial garbage bag later, I ran into another volunteer, Sasha, who had also come downtown to help out. We worked our way back through Yaletown, towards the downtown core, picking up everything… Pizza boxes, bloody gauze bandages, blue EMT gloves, transit passes, and LOTS of cigarette butts. Broken beer bottles. Smashed plastic cups. Lots of torn up plants. Several different shoes… (each a single), and slippers (a pair). Lots of half eaten food. A lot of bags filled with sloshy liquids, that I didn’t want to investigate or guess the contents.
As it got later in the morning, the people on the street were more aware of the hundreds of volunteers, and many pedestrians were thanking us as they passed us by.
Several times we were approached by folks, who came by with backpacks filled with cold drinks for the workers.
After the ugliness of the previous evening, it was a beautiful, glorious, cleansing day. The sunshine also helped to chase away the darkness of the previous night’s events.
Some people (mostly older) stopped us and asked us if we worked for the city, and were astonished when we said no… we were just pitching in, with a lot of other people, after the previous night’s chaos. All then were quick to offer thanks and express appreciation.
The ONLY dissonant note we came across, was a tall, well dressed man, who walked by, and then walked over to talk to us… “WHAT ARE YOU DOING?” “HOW CAN YOU EVEN SHOW YOUR FACES TODAY?” Well, sir, the REAL fans are NOT the ones who did this… the damage was done by drunken idiots, taking advantage of being anonymous in the crowd.” “ALL CANUCKS FANS ARE GOONS” “No, sir… we’re not. What you saw was sadly a very visible few” And then, the obvious flailing started… “YOU AREN’T GOING TO CHANGE ANYTHING.” “We’ll make the downtown area cleaner, again” And the final non-sequitor arguments… “YOU STRAIGHT GUYS CAN’T ROCK A JERSEY, ANYWAY!!!” To which I was so non-plussed, I said nothing… “YOU SHOULD TAKE THAT %$#@ING JERSEY OFF… IT’S UGLY” “Sir, you need to go about your business, and try to have a good day.” He kept shouting, as he went away… and while initially angered, it became apparent to me that he was just traumatized, and saddened… and my Canucks jersey had become a symbol to him of the harsh ugliness of the night before.
But the Canucks and their true fans had no part in the chaos. There were a few doppelgangers, who disguised themselves as Canuck fans, but were really there to wreak havoc, under the guise of a public gathering… thinking that in a large crowd, they could get away with something that they couldn’t otherwise.
A lot of people are angry. This gent had it triggered by the sight of me in my Canuck jersey. Others have latched onto publicly berating (supposedly) identified vandals. For myself, I felt it best to focus on the positive aspect of getting on with the cleanup, and leaving the identification and prosecution of those responsible to those who have it in their job description. If I’m in a self appointed position, the job of sheriff wasn’t available… so I took the job of street cleaner.
As we worked through the streets of Gastown, up and along East Hastings, and back towards Robson Square, people from all walks of life and all levels of society were gracious and grateful for the efforts of the whole @VancouverClean team.
As we journeyed, along, crossing paths with other members of the clean up crew, we too would shout encouragements and whoop “Thank you’s!!!”
It was hours of very hard work… crawling on hands and knees, picking up shards of glass and cleaning the aftermath of a large unruly crowd. But it was also a GREAT day, right up there with my opportunity to run the Olympic Torch… because to me, there is a great satisfaction in working to right a wrong, and fix something that needs fixing… and this was a City working together to Exorcise a Demon.
And we took our city back from the Demon.
This is my city…
Our city…
And you will not take her over, again.
Missing Langley Teen – Amanda McPhee
Campaigning: A Ton Of Fun
In the past week, since the end of the campaign and the election, I have been busy with closing up our campaign office, and running around with personal stuff. Here, belatedly, are my reflections on working and helping to run a political campaign.
Whenever and where ever I work, I have always tried to focus on managing the team to minimize the downtime. This means I am always trying to focus on “what next”, and so I spent much of the campaign trying to think ahead, and that made it harder to live in the moment, and be “present”… But there were exceptions.
One day, early in the campaign, a lady came into the Office, and spoke to Mandeep, Brian and I. She seemed very distracted, and her questions were largely unfocused and she wasn’t really listening to the answers she was getting. A week later, she came back when I was in the office by myself, and she told me that her mother was suffering from a degenerative disease, and she was having to take care of her, while working. And then the previous week, she had taken her husband to a new doctor, and her husband had been diagnosed with having prostate cancer. Because their original doctor had not done a simple test, his treatment had been delayed by over a year. She was looking for an answer that no one could give her… That her husband would be okay, and that she would be able to cope with looking after her Mom.
I met Cindy on that second visit, and I don’t think anyone could not be affected by the fear in her eyes that two of the most important people in her world were being threatened, and there was nothing she could do.
We sat and talked, and I talked about the advances they had made in Prostate Cancer treatments, and how many more options and treatments there were than ten or fifteen years ago, and how research was being done, here in BC, that was saving lives every day. She just needed someone to talk to, and because my Dad had died from cancer, and I have paid attention since his passing, I was able to help give her some answers, and, I like to think, a little bit of hope.
Doorknocking, that most mundane of election tasks, was another area where you had no choice but to be alert and focused, and a sense of humour didn’t hurt, either.
In an election where (in the end) it turned out that five years of Conservative attack ads worked, a massive number of people, on their doorsteps, expressed disdain for Michael Ignatieff. One man came to the door, and as I started my “Hello, I’m Bob from the Liberal Party, and we’re here today campaigning for Mandeep Bhuller….” He interrupted me to say, “All the other parties have sent assholes to my door, and now here you are.” To which I replied “I’m very sorry that the other parties bothered you, and now that they are gone, can I give you some information on Mandeep Bhuller ?”
He laughed, started asking questions about our platform, and became engaged in discussion. When we left, he was thinking about our policies.
A few others were not as gracious.
One gent who came to the door, and upon me completing my spiel, said simply “I have a gun.” He didn’t smile when I suggested that he would then like that the Liberal Party supported the Long Gun Registry. He simply closed the door in my face.
Another gent said nothing, but stood there tapping a floor plank with nails in it, as if weighing it, to calculate swing strength. I completed my speech, and offered him a card, and at the end, said to him “…if you are going to hit me with the board when I turn to leave, please use the side without nails as I have been polite during our ‘talk’.”
At another house, I had a creepy feeling as I walked up, and this was due in part to the debris in front of the door, and in part to something I couldn’t put my finger on… so, despite my hesitation, and standing there debating, I shrugged it off, and pushed the doorbell. I could hear a noise inside the house, so I waited, and after a bit, pushed the button again. Suddenly a scraping noise over my head made me look up… and in the window over the door, peering down at me was a one eye and a mop of matted hair. I did not make that pitch.
But 99% of the other folk were, if not open to our message, at least polite and accepting in their attitude.
The same cannot be said for SOME of the overzealous volunteers of other political parties.
Our riding has a large area to it… almost as long as its unwieldy name: ‘Pitt Meadows – Maple Ridge – Mission’
We were fortunate that we had volunteers spanning the entire riding.
I live in Pitt Meadows, in an area between Hammond Road and the Golden Ears Bridge. So that is where I put signs out.
The lawn signs are each worth about $4.00, including the metal wire, and the plastic bag sign.
For the 10 days before the election, I would go out in the evening, and put out signs, and in the morning, they were gone.
Yes, in some cases a passerby would pull up a sign, and fling it in the bushes.
But I am talking about a concerted effort to pull up, collect the signs and cart them away… by (probably) two people in a pickup truck.
In those ten days, we probably lost close to 200 signs. That would be a few hundred pounds of signs.
After the third loss, I stopped reporting it to the police, because that was a waste of my time, and they have more important things to do.
But it was frustrating.
One time, as I was putting up signs, a neighbour, who lives less than a stone’s throw from me, told me “I wouldn’t bother if I was you… we don’t want those &%@#%ing signs around here.” He obviously didn’t recognize me, as I was wearing a hat, and had my coat collar up, due to the rain… but I thought it was sadly indicative of the descent into an “us vs them” mentality.
I can remember my Dad, who worked for CBC Radio, having blazingly heated discussions with MLA’s, over policy and issues… and then they would go out to dinner together… but that was 30 years ago.
Today, there seems to be a diminishing respect for anyone wearing a different colour shirt, campaign button or having different ideals.
There are 36 days worth of stories, and I may tell more, as I unwind from this very intense and focused experience, but I came away from this chapter of my life, 25 lbs lighter, with some very good friends, and having a lot of fun experiences that I will remember my whole life.
I was lucky enough to be at a point in my life that I could, with my wife’s help and blessing, put aside my clients and other obligations, and dive into this experience headlong.
It was awesome, and if you get the chance, get involved in a campaign.
It is a TON of fun !!!